A phone call I didn't want...
When I am out of the country it is always with some concern when I answer a call on my cell phone early in the morning. I am in Thailand at the moment and early yesterday when I was asleep my cell phone rang and I learnt that my only sister had just died.
I share this with you as there are some lessons to be learnt. Diane was only two years older than me but, was not particularly health conscious…in fact, not health conscious at all.
She was a wonderful person but had always had faith in her Doctors. Her heart health over recent years had begun to deteriorate…ironically since she was talked into going on statin drugs and other medication! I did my best to have her consider other options and use our products but her Doctor was not positive about them and insisted on her taking only her medication and as such she never tried them…not even our Omega 3 DHA fish oil.
From her perspective I can understand this…after all I was her brother and I don’t wear a white coat and have a bunch of degrees hanging on the wall. I have learnt years ago that if someone really doesn’t want to know about ways they can change their health that the information cannot be forced on them…they have to ask and be receptive…sadly, that principle also has to extend to family.
Earlier this week Diane went to hospital to have a new heart valve. This should have been a pretty straightforward procedure but the valve was slightly out of shape and as such the operation took a lot longer than anticipated. As a result air got in her system and up into the brain. This necessitated her being kept in an induced coma and put in a decompression chamber to try to eliminate the air bubble.
Over a period of a couple of days she went into the chamber four times. She then was brought out of the coma and actually was able to take a few steps and the Doctors said that she was doing fine and on the way to recovery.
However, she had two seizures in the short period after she was conscious but she got through them OK…but, the third one stopped her heart completely and resulted in her death.
Could her death been avoided? I have no doubt that the answer is yes. Is it anyone’s fault? Well, some could argue that it was the ‘health’ systems fault which tends to allow people to put the fate of their own bodies, and lives in the hands of a system which is not really geared for optimal health.
It is very hard for the average person who has not studied health and in particular the cause of ill health to see all the flaws in the current medical system and as such they often just accept without question what their Doctors tell them.
In my opinion there needs to be a radical change in the way that people think about their health. They need to take responsibility for their own body and not forget that it is theirs and theirs alone and that they control what does or does not go in it. Doctors are fallible just like us normal mortal beings. They don’t always have the right answers and they are often a major cause of premature death.
I don’t blame the Doctors as individuals but the system that has been allowed to develop in which control is largely in the hands of the pharmaceutical cartels. The medical schools are largely controlled by the pharmaceutical companies and most of the ‘educational’ material and text books is prepared by pharmaceutical funded organizations. Bodies such as the Cholesterol Council of America are dominated by special interests…in this case nine of the eleven members have financial ties to the statin drug manufacturers…that is why the ‘guidelines’ for cholesterol has been lowered multiple times over the years.
If the ‘health system’ was based on ‘health’ principles and focused on prevention then Diane would have probably have believed me when I was trying to tell that she was putting her entire health at risk with both her lifestyle and medication…and if she had taken note I have no doubt that she would still be with us today…as would countless number of other people throughout the world…
It is so sad when thousands of people every day throughout the world have to endure the tragedy of seeing their loved ones pass on when they should have been able to continue to enjoy a full life for many years to come.








Reader Comments (27)
I am very sorry for your loss. Keep the good memories and continue your great work and contribution.
My deepe condolences to you and the family .
May GOD bless her
- Bader
It's disgusting how the system seems to be, everything is about taking a drug, it's corrupted and I really hope than one day we'll be able to let a good fraction of the general public to understand that drugs are NOT the answer to health problems, but rather going natural is the key to healing, without even having to go through the nasty side effects.
I educate people everyday whenever I have the chance to do so, and get them to understand that popping a pill for every health problem will most likely worsen things, rather than fix them.
I'm extremely sorry to here that, and my heart goes to you and your family.
This is the first time i have ever read such blog.
I wish for the peace of her soul. I am now speechless. I cant tell any more.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. I know that this is a very difficult time, but you must think about the good things your Company have been doing for so many around the world.
I have a similar problem with a sister of mine. She takes cholesterol drugs and if I try to explain that she could be harming herself she snaps back at me and asks if I am a doctor. "I believe in my cardiologist", she says. There is nothing I can do, it is very frustrating.
God bless you.
Vera.
All of your comments about our health system are right on the mark. And it is so sad and so frustrating when people refuse to be educated about how they can help themselves.
My heart goes out to you. Bless you and keep up the good work.
Thank you all so much for your kind words and the sharing of some of your experiences. I very much appreciate it.
Although it has been a time of sadness I don't feel any anger at all or, sorrow to the extent that it impacts on my own inner peace. I have my fond and positive memories and they will stay with me always.
Over recent years I have learnt to accept things as they are so bad things have minimal impact on me. I change what I can for the better when I can but when I can't I accept what it is. It is what it is.
In the early days of learning what makes us 'tick' I used to get frustrated in cases when people who were going on a self destruct path which could easily be changed through lifestyle and diet changes still refused to change anything and continued to rely on a pill to make them better.
I no longer get frustrated by these situations. People have the freedom to make their own choices. The information is out there if they want it.
Diane was not 'anti' natural options, she just didn't embrace it. Also, her lifestyle made it more difficult. She and her husband owned two 'take away' shops and she worked from 10am to 11pm seven days a week. Even though it was hard on her and agreed when I kept pushing her to sell and retire, I actually think that she loved doing what she was doing as it was in a semi-rural area and had lots of friends continually calling in to see her.
I think that it is important for everyone to be conscious of their health and lifestyle at all ages and at all times. If you are doing something that you know is bad for your body, try to change it as soon as you can. You may be healthy at the time you recognise it and think..I am OK for another few years...but, often those few years will tip the scales as to whether you will enjoy good health for the remainder of your life or, be plagued with problems. Don't wait until symptoms begin to appear before acting.
It is sad news for you.I strongly believe that the health system of US is getting bad day by day.The administration must do some serious action to improve the system. www.vitabits.fr/supplements/
Your sharing here has helped me to look at life differently.
Bottomline...because of the reluctance to confront the "AH" with troubling news, it either goes unreported or is "scrubbed" resulting in a failed or less-than-desired result.
Life certainly a series of choices and seeking for the truth for each one of us. To be able to detach with love from others who might not share your path is so healing. Then, in love, you can watch them choose their path, knowing that it is their own and you can grieve or be content knowing that you did not judge them for their choices. Inner peace and calm are my goals, today, also. Thank you for all you do and are in providing many of us with the gift of healing modalities and wisdom. Namasté.
Your words, whilst so very sad through the loss of your sister, are so true.
We all must take control of our own health - mountains of meds aren't the answer in most cases - and drug companies love people being "in the system" for as long as possible.
Every day I come across people who want to abdicate responsibility for their health to another person - the answer to it all lies within ourselves.
Thank you for creating a company and a range of fantastic products aimed towards those who value their own health above all else.
My condolences on this very sad time.
Paul A.J